Come As You Are: To The Table

For parents and carers in our community

Location address: The Pelham, Bexhill-on-Sea
Chosen age group:

Ages: 18+ years

Available tickets:
CAYA: To The Table Free
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Come As You Are: To The Table block mentored by Come As You Are (CAYA)
What we'll do
Come As You Are: To the Table Parent and Carer Wellbeing Space What it is A calm, welcoming space for parents and carers from the CAYA community. You can bring your own crafts, try something from our table or simply sit with a drink. There is no pressure to talk or do anything. Just come as you are. What we offer • Free hot drink for every adult • Cake and fruit • Craft materials provided each week • Space to bring your own projects • A neuroaffirming, low-demand environment • A place to connect with others who get it What happens each session The session evolves based on who comes and what each person brings. Some people craft. Some talk. Some sit quietly. Everything is welcome. Who it’s for Parents and carers in the Come As You Are community. Why we run it Everyone brings something valuable to the table. You matter. You deserve rest, community and connection. Practical info • Location – The Pelham • Time – 12:00 - 14:00 • Free to attend • Drop in or book
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1:1 care
2:1 care
Qualified to administer medication
Epilepsy trained
Secure environment
Accessible toilet
Assist with personal care and toileting
Hoist and changing bench
Wheelchair accessible site
Autism awareness trained
Sensory or quiet spaces
Makaton trained
PECS trained
More information available on request
Contact the Mentor to discuss your specific needs regarding this list item.
Please note:
It is the responsibility of the booker to satisfy themselves about the adequacy of the the measures provided above. This platform is merely an introducer and does not verify the items listed.
About your mentor
Come As You Are (CAYA)
Creating Spaces and Support For Families
Our Mission Come As You Are CIC exists to advance inclusion and accessibility for neurodivergent, disabled, and SEN children and their families. We create safe, supportive environments — alongside training, advocacy, and community-led programmes — where families can connect, learn, and thrive together. Our mission is simple: to make belonging the baseline. From our pop-up spaces and sensory-friendly projects to our workshops and professional training, every part of our work is designed to remove barriers and build community. Come As You Are CIC is currently finalising the establishment of The CAYA Foundation (CIO) — a charitable arm that will sit alongside the CIC to secure long-term sustainability and protect our inclusive work for future generations. Our Values Inclusion and Accessibility We design with accessibility in mind from the start — ensuring that every child, family, and professional can take part in their own way. Safety and Connection Our spaces and sessions prioritise comfort, calm, and care — offering a safe place to rest, play, and connect without judgement. Reducing Isolation We tackle social isolation by improving access to public spaces, opportunities, and peer support across the community. Advocacy and Practical Tools We support families with information, confidence, and practical tools — helping them to navigate systems and create change together. Co-production We champion lived experience as expertise. Families and professionals co-design the spaces, services, and training that shape inclusion locally. Our Aims We exist to: Advance inclusion and accessibility for neurodivergent, disabled, and SEN children and their families. Provide safe, supportive environments for play, connection, and community-led activity. Relieve isolation and exclusion by improving access to public spaces, services, and opportunities. Support families through peer connection, advocacy, and practical tools. Champion co-production — ensuring that those with lived experience shape the spaces and services that affect them.
Learning aims
Aim 1
A calm space for parents and carers to slow down, regulate and take a break without pressure.
Aim 2
Build connection and peer support with others who share similar experiences.
Aim 3
Increase confidence in taking time for yourself and prioritising your own wellbeing.
Pricing information
Ticket nameCAYA: To The Table
Price£0
LEARNER REFLECTIONS0 reflections
Where we'll be
The Pelham, Hollier's Hill, Bexhill-on-Sea, East Sussex, TN40 2DD
WHAT’S PROVIDED
Drinks
Snacks
Equipment
Safety
Enhanced DBS
Risk Assessment
Public Liability Insurance
Safeguarding Training
First Aid Training
First Aid Kit
Smoke Detector

Please note

Please note, it is the responsibility of the booker to satisfy themselves about the adequacy of the safety measures. This platform is merely an introducer and does not verify the items listed here.

Cancellation Policy
Free bookings do not require refunds but as places are limited, please cancel if you cannot attend so that your place can be offered to someone else.

My experience consists of a leisure activity, on a specific date(s), and therefore the 14-day ‘cooling off period’ under the Consumer Contracts Regulations 2013 does not apply.